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The parent signs the contract. Since technology is a privilege, children understand it can be taken away if boundaries are broken.

Be upfront and clear. If children have a better understanding of the expectations, it will become easier to enforce boundaries.

Parents maintain access to all accounts. This adds another level of accountability.

Children should take responsibility for any physical damage to the phone and for any plan overages.

All apps can be set up for approval by mom or dad. This gives parents control over which apps are installed on the phone.

Remind children that colleges and employers look at social media as a reference. Once it’s online, it’s online forever.

Children understand that parents can and will check their devices. Random and frequent checks create healthy accountability.

It’s important for children to realize that what they do online represents their family, friends, church, and school.

Define acceptable and unacceptable times of use as well as technology time limits. Times can be adjusted with age and maturity as trust is built.

Teach children when to silence or turn off the phone – movies, restaurants, dinner table, etc. The phone shouldn’t be used when interacting with someone in person. This is a direct reflection of how parents use their phones. Set a good example.

Anything that wouldn’t be said in person should never be said over text or on a social network. Fake accounts should never be used to make fun of someone. Photos, videos, or text that could be embarrassing to someone else should never be shared.

Technology allows people to connect with others easier and more often. It’s important that children use technology to have a positive influence on others.